We only really fall in love with 3 people in our life

In life, we only really fall in love with three people. There is a very specific reason why this happens

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In life we only really fall in love with three people. There is a very specific reason why this happens: we need to live three different types of love to evolve.

Each of us really falls in love with three people different from each other temperamentally and each leads us to experience a very specific nuance of love. Among these three types of encounter with the other person and love only one will be able to last very long, sometimes forever.

Perhaps you have not yet experienced all three of the following types of love in your life, perhaps because the right time has not yet come.

Or maybe you have had them but are unable to recognize them right now.

Only a few times are we lucky enough to meet a person who at that particular moment we think is really suitable for us. Not because he is a perfect person, but because together you were able to find a very deep agreement and you really felt like you were made for each other.

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Here are the three main types of love stories that we can meet in life.

Index

Fairytale love

Fairytale love is what we dreamed of watching romantic movies and series. Maybe we also thought it was easy to achieve to get that happy ending that would allow us to live happily ever after. Actually this kind of love shows us how difficult it is to be what we are not. Perhaps you have created what was a beautiful couple only in appearance and that was positively judged by other people. You were actually living a fiction, not a true love, and you realized it. You have stopped giving too much importance to the opinions of others and have begun to think about your greatest needs. You were in love with a fake prince charming.

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Love that hurts

Love that hurts is the most difficult of all. It is a real 'toxic' love. You were hoping this love was different and better than previous stories but it wasn't. This love has taught you much more about yourself than you could have imagined. Lies, quarrels and manipulation are the main points of this toxic love that you have felt trapped in for a period of time. You have endured the torment of negative emotions for at least a phase, hoping that everything would improve. It was not like that, the story is over and you have opened up to new horizons. You were in love with a person capable only of making you suffer.

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Unexpected love

When this love came, you weren't waiting for it, you weren't ready, you were thinking about everything but falling in love. When you met the person who then made you fall in love you felt very hesitant, you were not at all sure that she could be suitable for you and at first you may have underestimated her. At some point, however, you decided to put aside all your prepackaged ideas about love and you started to have a really new experience, difficult to explain. With this new person, you have begun to find unexpected connections. You have found the right person for you.

What it is or what it was the greatest love of your life?

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Marta Albè