Perfect love doesn't exist, have you ever thought about it? After all, perfection does not exist, each of us has qualities and ways of doing that make it unique.
Don't store avocado like this: it's dangerousPerfect love doesn't exist, have you ever thought about it? After all, perfection does not exist, each of us has qualities and ways of doing that make it unique.
But often we make a mistake, that is, we are looking for a person who perfectly fits our imaginary ideals. Perhaps this person does not exist and therefore we will never meet her. So how are we gonna find true love?
Those who are looking for love sometimes have it with them a long list of expectations, dreams and illusionsthe. But when expectations are very high, perhaps unrealistic, disappointment will always be around the corner.
Merging works when both have a similar point of view on fundamental issues of life: the decision to have children or not, the choice of where to live together, whether or not to marry and other matters of very important importance depending on the couple.
When the foundations of the couple are solid, it does not matter that the partner is exactly identical to our ideal, what matters is knowing how to be amazed every day by the beauty of love and knowing how to live it to the full despite the difficulties.
Everyone must be free to live a love that can surprise him and at the same time should leave the other there freedom to express himself based on his personality.
We may think that our partner is not perfect because he is different from us, but maybe are just these 'imperfections' and differences to make the couple complete. Usually adults tend to do their best in everyday life, perhaps the results are not always identical to what was expected, but this, for example, is not a valid reason to consider one's partner as a little person. valid or free of defects.
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In a couple there is really a need for encourage each other, to support each other and to try to face difficulties together. Sometimes communication problems may arise, one of the two may have a tendency not to express their emotions and not to talk about their problems.
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In this case over time it can improve the ability to confide in each other even when you think you are hurting your partner by talking about your problems and life's difficulties.
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Never forget that a couple's happiness is based on respect and love. In a true couple there must be the freedom to be imperfect without feeling less loved for who you really are. Committing together in a common project, being yourself and giving the best of yourself in life will allow us to carry on a lasting and concrete relationship, a true love outside the world of fairy tales.
Marta Albè
