True love comes at the right time: don't beg for it, don't be manipulated

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Carlos Laforet Coll
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True love comes at the right time. Is someone granting you 'love' with the dropper? Warning: begged love is not true love. If we find ourselves having to chase after someone to be by their side, they are probably not interested in a journey for two.

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Il true love comes at the right time. Someone is granting you 'love' with the dropper? Warning: begged love is not true love. If we find ourselves having to chase after someone to be by their side, they are probably not interested in a journey for two.





We try, as long as we can, not to become the cause of our own pain and not to let ourselves be dazzled and exploited by false loves.

True love it is not a competition to see who gives more affection or attention. Everything happens spontaneously and when problems arise, we decide to face them together without running away and without trying to hide.

Il false love instead it can become a real one handling. It happens when the other person is not really loving us, not trying to make us feel good but it's just using us, maybe just to have some company or maybe to cause jealousy in someone else.

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Some people think that suffering for love is inevitable but in reality it is not. Even in the greatest love, obviously there can be moments of sadness or despair but when a relationship seems to be based only on arguments and tears, there is probably something wrong at the basis of the relationship.

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We make sure that others don't take advantage of our feelings. If a relationship it does not give joy, it does not make us peaceful and it does not help us to become better people the time has come to put an end to it and to independently resume the ranks of one's life.

However, such experiences should not be categorized as useless. They are part of our growth and will help us recognize true love when it comes. Some people believe in the lightning strike, others think that there is atwin soul that can accompany us throughout our life and create a real turning point in our existence.



If the person with whom you form a couple it becomes violent, it makes you suffer, it does not respect you, does not contribute in the least to your well-being, no longer even gives you a smile, open your eyes.

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Don't let yourself be manipulated and get away as soon as possible. Although sometimes it is not easy, if you realize that you are living in a situation that is putting your personal life and your space at risk, do not hesitate and ask for help as soon as possible. Tell your story, trust and unlock.



Certainly you do not deserve the false love granted with the dropper just as you shouldn't be bothered to chase after a person who is not at your level at all. We are sure that if you manage to let go of the past and end worn out relationships, life will amaze you with the positive surprises you have been waiting for for a long time.

Marta Albè

Illustrations by Asia Pietrzyk

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