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We don't like fear, pain, emotional fatigue, anger, sadness. However, we all carry with us a certain dose, sure, which derives from the wounds and pains experienced - more or less consciously - in childhood and we try not to feel them: distracting ourselves, engaging in other activities. But they, sly and impertinent, sooner or later return. They are resentful. The more we shy away from them, the more they chase us.
But there is a way out: to heal. The path is illustrated, step by step, with poetry and kindness, by Thich Nhat Hanh, in his book Make peace with yourself (Terra Nuova Edizioni). It is a question of allowing ourselves the possibility of being affected, bringing to light the most remote inner conflicts and thus transforming them into strength and awareness: new energies, alive, for our life, which allow us to express ourselves more freely, having eliminated the weights that limit us in the relationships and personal fulfillment.
Of course, it is also possible to learn to let go of the annoyances and tensions that affect the present life in the background. One practice, in particular (among the several mentioned in the book), is as simple as it is effective; his name is revealing: "remove the object".
Thich Nhat Hanh reveals that Master Linji, a Chinese Zen master, used the expression "remove the object" to indicate the action of removing disturbing thoughts about a situation, a person, a story to return to the present, the here and now of the body and emotions. It is not a question of avoiding but of allowing something deeper and more important to happen: “we can identify the internal knots and embrace them tenderly, let the tensions relax and relax; then we can heal ”.
And here it is; there practice of "removing the object" (to do in a quiet place, perhaps seated, with your back kept straight; you start by simply listening and following your breath; eyes closed to facilitate relaxation and self-listening):
Breathing in, I find my inspiration again
exhaling, I find my exhalation
Breathing in, I recall the object (my problem, situation, person ...)
exhaling, I open myself to this problem
Breathing in, I let go of all thoughts about the object
exhaling, I embrace the energy of my body
Breathing in, I bring attention and feel my body, sensations and emotions
exhaling, I embrace my body, sensations and emotions, whatever they are
Breathing in, I bring my inspiration into my body, sensations and emotions, whatever they are
exhaling, I release the tensions in my body and emotions
Breathing in, I am aware of my inspiration
exhaling, I am aware of my exhalation.
The instructions must be followed for at least a couple of minutes per step.
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Warnings: sometimes the body's energy, sensations, emotions can seem too heavy, painful, overwhelming. In that case, you should try to stay in contact for at least twenty seconds, as long as possible (as long as you can, until "it's not too much") and then open your eyes and look at something, for example outside the window. . When you feel ready again, try to contact that emotion again for a while. Changing the object of attention (inside / outside) "helps to find a solid foundation outside of us and space within us".