Forgetting unrequited love in a short time is perhaps impossible, but we can try to overcome the pain associated with this circumstance that is making us suffer. Knowing the sufferings of love will make us appreciate even more the joys we will encounter in the future, let's not forget that.
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Forget a unrequited love in a short time it is perhaps impossible, but we can try to process and overcome the pain related to this circumstance that is making us suffer. Knowing the sufferings of love will make us appreciate even more the joys we will encounter in the future, let's not forget that.
First we should learn to accept suffering as an important moment in life that can teach us a lot. Don't try to erase sadness or hide it from yourself. Recognize it and live it.
If you have been rejected, it is perfectly normal for you to be sad. A moment of reflection will allow you to find yourself and calm down if you feel broken. Not listening and disrespecting sadness and pain could lead you to act irrationally and seek quick consolations.
Since you are not in great shape right now and perhaps also feel quite tormented, a new rejection could be around the corner. Would you be ready to accept it?
Here then is that before throwing yourself headlong into the search for a new possible fall in love, you could first of all dedicate some time to yourself. Love, value and respect yourself it is the first step to make other people notice us and our beauty, not just external.
Let us first of all try not to punish ourselves if the situation in which we had placed many hopes has not developed according to our expectations. We can try to take stock of successes and failures and try to understand if compared to what has happened we have something to learn.
When love is denied us, we risk starting to think that we are worthless and that no one will ever want to be by our side. Love - the real one - is a feeling that manifests itself in a completely unexpected way and that often does not respect nor our times nor those of the person we would like near us.
Sometimes the reasons behind unrequited love have nothing to do with our worth, beauty or personality. Other times the timing does not coincide, there are distances that make it difficult to carry on a relationship or real ones obstacles that block the development of a mutual feeling.
It may happen that at this moment whoever you want to be sure that you are absolutely not the right person for him or her. Try to accept it and continue on your way. The situation may change in the future, but you cannot know now. Perhaps in some time you will realize that your feelings weren't all that strong or that that unrequited love for you now represents. a life lesson to learn.
Unrequited love momentarily or impossible love? Time will give you the answer you are looking for. Knowing the full consequences of what just happened could take quite a long time.
In a few months or a few years your life will perhaps be completely different than now and you can finally look to the past in perspective; in that moment you will understand why the romantic story you dreamed of never started.
The motivation could be really simple and a source of great happiness: that unrequited love of the past was not really "intended" for you and later you met a person who welcomed you right away and who is giving you a lot of joy.
Take care of yourself and think that suffering can also be linked to love simply as an integral part of life. When you will find happiness again, the sad and suffering person that you were will have transformed and this beautiful change will be above all thanks to you, never forget it.
Marta Albè
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