To face and overcome the difficulties of life we must build an armor of courage, arm ourselves with confidence and start fighting. Precisely this moment that today seems very difficult to us will one day become that important memory that has allowed us to become
Don't store avocado like this: it's dangerousTo face and overcome the difficulties of life we must build an armor of courage, arm ourselves with confidence and start fighting. Precisely this moment that today seems very difficult to us will one day become that important memory that has allowed us to become stronger and more determined people.
We try not to deny the anger, sadness and anxiety we feel. These emotions they are really normal for us human beings and it is almost mathematical that they appear when we are in a difficult moment. This is because we may have something to learn from these emotions.
Here some little advice to deal with the difficulties e increase determination.
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Difficulties are challenges
The difficulties and obstacles of life do not happen by chance, they are real challenges that allow us to evolve and improve. Accept difficulties and obstacles as an opportunity to learn more about yourself.
Change starts with ourselves
If we want to change the world we must first of all change ourselves and start behaving like the people we really want to become. Difficulties pass or can be transformed to turn them to our advantage thanks to inner change.
Failures lead to success
How many failures Did they have to face in life the people who are now considered successful? If we never had to face difficulties and failures we would not be able to understand what our real abilities are and perhaps we would stop fighting properly to reach our goal.
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The best is yet to come
If at this moment we think that everything is going really wrong let's realize that it is only a phase and that the best is yet to come. Above all, we ourselves will build the real future we want.
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The present is the only important moment
We are always worried about the future and we worry about what happened in the past, forgetting that the present it is the only moment that is really important for us, the only one that we are sure we can live as we wish. Let's try to live moment by moment and we will understand that in this way the difficulties become easier to overcome.
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We must be grateful for life
We try to to be grateful for the life we are living even if everything seems very difficult to us because only in the future will we understand where the bristling path we are walking at this moment will have brought us. We will thank the difficulties even more easily when we understand the motivation.
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We value moments of joy
Among so many difficulties and sufferings however, there may be moments of joy, some positive ideas. Even if they are small, let us commit ourselves to value them and smile at life anyway, because even a brief joy can give us a great boost to face difficulties.
Let's not compare ourselves to others
We avoid comparing ourselves to others and of make comparisons between their life and ours since we never fully know the history of other people and what are the difficulties they have had to face or are facing. It is not certain that a person who is happy today has never suffered.
We don't play victims
Let's leave victimhood completely aside, let's try not to be victims, we stop thinking that fate is raging against us since we are the ones most responsible for what happens in our life and what could happen in the future starting from tomorrow.
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We follow the flow of events
When we find ourselves in a turbulent time in our life we try to follow the flow of events and at the same time to continue to fight against difficulties. We will understand what will be the right time to react and to get up stronger than before.
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Marta Albè
